tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11500145.post113703841074449885..comments2023-10-20T09:51:48.984-05:00Comments on Teacher Tori: Another story:Teacher Torihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01768392574776846394noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11500145.post-1137992597681330202006-01-22T23:03:00.000-06:002006-01-22T23:03:00.000-06:00thanks for the advice!thanks for the advice!Teacher Torihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01768392574776846394noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11500145.post-1137950394247882362006-01-22T11:19:00.000-06:002006-01-22T11:19:00.000-06:00Having celebrated our 40th anniversary recently, w...Having celebrated our 40th anniversary recently, whatever is said is carved in stone no matter how off-handed it may have been said. Consider carefully what and how you say everything. Laugh together and at yourself and with your spouse. The solidness of the marriage, makes children feel safe.<BR/><BR/>Remember the good frequently. Forget the slights quickly.<BR/><BR/>There is no such thing as constructive criticism in marriage, except if your giving yourself the advise.<BR/><BR/>I got a list of marriage suggestions from a friend and I found number 4 below to be insightful.<BR/><BR/>4. A woman marries a man expecting he will change, but he doesn't. A man marries a woman expecting that she won't change, and she does.<BR/><BR/>Then the most important of all, be sure you find a man as perfect as me............:)NewsGnomehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15400754837781067020noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11500145.post-1137557490484675382006-01-17T22:11:00.000-06:002006-01-17T22:11:00.000-06:00I think that is great advice Fetching Jen!I think that is great advice Fetching Jen!Teacher Torihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01768392574776846394noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11500145.post-1137519998426244772006-01-17T11:46:00.000-06:002006-01-17T11:46:00.000-06:00Marry the guy that you are friends with and can la...Marry the guy that you are friends with and can laugh with. Romance is wonderful, but becomes more special over time because of busy lives - kids, work, mortgages...<BR/><BR/>You must laugh together. Everything will be fine then.Katy Grimeshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00990099801243520229noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11500145.post-1137172169349049492006-01-13T11:09:00.000-06:002006-01-13T11:09:00.000-06:00I guess I should clarify...I didn't mean THE PERFE...I guess I should clarify...I didn't mean THE PERFECT man.....I know there's no such thing, but rather "the perfect man for me". <BR/><BR/>Awww, Eddie, don't tease me like that :(Teacher Torihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01768392574776846394noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11500145.post-1137161240802187442006-01-13T08:07:00.000-06:002006-01-13T08:07:00.000-06:00that is a very good point stuffle!that is a very good point stuffle!Teacher Torihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01768392574776846394noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11500145.post-1137159760327672152006-01-13T07:42:00.000-06:002006-01-13T07:42:00.000-06:00and learning to adaptThat is very, very important....<I>and learning to adapt</I><BR/><BR/>That is very, <I>very</I> important. I have seen a fair number if relationships fail because one or both partners are too self oriented and will not adapt to the other person...stufflehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03809919830300638474noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11500145.post-1137125407873800512006-01-12T22:10:00.000-06:002006-01-12T22:10:00.000-06:00Tori Did you read todays New York Daily News. A po...Tori <BR/><BR/>Did you read todays New York Daily News. A poor young girl was starved and beaten to death. The teachers reported the bruises but the social workers found nothing wrong. <BR/><BR/>This type of story happens about once a year in the NYC area. I guess teachers are on the front line.beakerkinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06088967209404588378noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11500145.post-1137097479417787142006-01-12T14:24:00.000-06:002006-01-12T14:24:00.000-06:00tori, if you wait for the perfect man, you will ha...tori, if you wait for the perfect man, you will have to become a nun and marry Christ as they do.<BR/><BR/>Do like most women and find the best one you can, marry him then proceed to make him over to what you want:)sandyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06802530014808008207noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11500145.post-1137090949379897332006-01-12T12:35:00.000-06:002006-01-12T12:35:00.000-06:00no, I know marriage isn't perfect....and it take a...no, I know marriage isn't perfect....and it take a lot of work...BUT, I'm saying before one gets married if there are lots of problems, that you need to really look at that.Teacher Torihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01768392574776846394noreply@blogger.com